Onision's One True Love, Netunesa (Skye's Younger Sister, Alicia)

28 September 2019 [link youtube]


And the thumbnail reads, "True Love, Pure Evil". Here is the sad story of Onision's one true love, Netunesa (Skye's younger sister, Alicia).


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so an isiand opens this comment with
quote my opinion on a feeble vocabulary test if you look up the Greek components that this word is made of it guys it doesn't it really doesn't make you sound any better better than just saying pedophile and this affiliate is this if they were consenting adult they were consenting adult I will never understand why 18 or 19 year olds are allowed to sign their life away to get deployed and die in war yet the internet freaks out when they choose an older partner here he is quoting someone who claims her parents of a 23 year age gap oh we're trying to normalize this his her her mother was 18 and her dad was 40 now her mom's 57 and their dad is 80 the legal age of consent in Germany 14 the legal agent could send in Japan he claims 13 but Americans will freak out and call you a pedophile maybe sleep with people who are 18 plus Oh first and foremost it's interesting to know that what he's saying factually is just not true it's then interesting to reflect on why he's saying it and a little bit more philosophically and profoundly it's interesting to reflect on the difference between a sincere ethical argument and an excuse in Germany the absolute age of consent is 18 under certain circumstances with certain caveats a 16 year old can get away with it an is he and if you follow your own advice and move to Germany and sleep with someone who's only 14 you can be looking at 3 years in prison no more than 3 years in jail that's what stipulated there so I don't know how you define age of consent but the possibility of going to prison for three years for relations with the 14 old I would not say that's the way people in the English language normally use the concept of Asia consent the issue in Japan has to do with regional law each region has a different age of consent and in reality nowhere is it thirteen why why is he presenting us with these factoids at all is this really a sincere ethical argument he's presenting or is he just making excuses Oh what do you think this is this is a videotape of venetian playing with dolls with a teenage girl who is that teenage girl she's not just anyone in SEN she's the girl you came out on the internet and said you wish you had married instead of your first wife that's your first wife's younger sister that's the same girl you kissed at age 15 now admittedly you and her tell two very different versions of the story you say that she kissed you and you ran away horrified her story is almost 180 degrees the opposite you were at some kind of a party there was alcohol involved I don't know she says she was intoxicated she says you kissed her she was horrified and ran away that's there's an interesting symmetry to those two two versions of events yeah that's the 15 year old girl who years later after she was 18 became a nude model appear in softcore pornography and part of the breakdown of your relationship with your first wife part of the reason why your first wife still hates you to this day is that you were caught with the pornographic images of the younger sister that it became clear to your first wife as she says here that through it the whole of your relationship apparently through the whole of your life and Sen you were white whale your obsession was this teenage girl the younger sister of your first weapon in some ways that obsession seems to have consumed you look at this you were still trying to get together with her you're still trying to get together with your first wife's younger sister when you were already dating when you're already getting set up to get married to Lainey Lainey the woman who's now the mother of her children Lainey who later decided to identify as a man you kept trying to reconcile with spark a relationship again with this girl whom you met whom you first knew playing with dolls and you did more than just play with dolls there was a period of his life when an isiand was not humorously not joking around he was seriously kind of setting up a new religion called sis Eska something like that and engaged in ghost hunting and believed in supernatural and superstitious things and he spent that time he was spending a lot of quality time with his first wife and this much younger little sister so now his first wife has to look back at all those things and regret you don't and wonder about his motives in all this time that they spent together and yep you know initio is a terrible writer but if you take the time to pour over this stuff you're gonna see that he really makes an effort to have well written prose here reaching out to the younger sister he says how much she meant to him here he's saying you know you've always been such a cool person in my mind you're still the person I used to play video games with you are such an inspiration to me he specifies that you know she was an inspiration him from the first moment when they met quote the moment I met you I connected with you I was inspired by your close quote that's as good as an essence Creative Writing gasps guys he's really putting in effort here but how old was she when they first met she would this is what she was she was this teenage girl playing with dolls she was a 15 year old who looked and sounded and acted like a child and it's more disturbing that a Missy and himself also looked and sounded and acted like a child and they made YouTube videos together and they went ghost island hunting together it was an obsession that in some ways destroyed his first marriage and in some ways still seems to be destroying his life [Music] what is the difference between making an excuse and sincerely advancing an argument about ethics and morality right and wrong I think when we advance a sincere argument of that type we're reflecting on what kind of person we aspire to be ourselves we're reflecting on what kind of person we would want others to be especially the people in our lives we care about what kind of person would I want my own brother to grow up to be my own cousin mountain nephew my own son and we're reflecting on what kind of society we want to have you know what's the sense of dignity and honor we live by what's the code of brotherly love or what have you right it's got to be scaled up those are sincere arguments about ethics and morality and excuses by contrast our short-term self-centered self-serving and an insincere by that standard in that they fail to show a sincere interest in what kind of society we're gonna live in what kind of people we're gonna be or become but oh jeez so you think you think this is a sincere argument anisia or is this just an excuse for your own bad behavior and this you know let me ask you do you want to live in a society where thirteen year olds and fourteen year olds can't go to McDonald's unaccompanied because adult men will try to initiate relationships none is that the kind of society you want to live in that's that's not the kind of society I want to live in now I'm vegan I never go to McDonald's but whenever I'm in a situation like that where I'm in a situation where you're in like a fast-food restaurant or something and there are a group of 13 year-olds or 14 year-olds hanging out as a group of friends with a group with them with no parent overlooking them I know a lot of people like hate that like oh they're these unruly kids making noise and whatever messing up the messing up the restaurant whenever I look at that I think wow I'm so glad I don't live in Saudi Arabia like I'm so I don't live in a more repressive traditional cult culture where children don't have this kind of freedom they don't have this kind of luxury and I'm so glad I don't live in a culture where marriage and men pursuing you know teenage girls for a relationship where that makes it impossible because young people have to be defended against those kinds of those kinds of overtures so it's a wonderful luxury to live in a society where kids that age have a little bit of freedom and a little bit of agency to go and go and hang out at a McDonald's without you know constant parental supervision I noticed you only talk about one half of the equation you say why is it that eighteen and nineteen years eighteen and nineteen year olds are allowed to give their life away sign up for the army but the 18 year old isn't allowed to choose to be with an older partner and older husband and all their wife and older lover or what have you what about the decision made by the older person NECN right I think the ethics of that the advantages and the disadvantages of that are really worth reflecting on if you spend time with 16 year old seventeen year olds eighteen year olds and to be clear Sarah the most notorious of innocents current ex-girlfriend Sarah she was living in their house raising their kids spending a lot of time with them at age 16 17 and 18 you are gonna have to tolerate an unbelievable level of abuse of tantrums of bad behavior because a 16 year old is going to act like a 16 year old and you have signed up to tolerate it there's no way that you as the older party are gonna be able to treat an 18 year old as accountable in the same way that you would treat a 28 year old or 38 year old put it this way in the same way that a 16 year old will be cruel and insulting to his or her parents and the parents have to have the detachment to deal with that and respond in a way that's sagacious and helpful and not bench for something I even think about friendships at age 16 17 18 teenagers like that they will treat their best friend in a manner that would be considered abusive for a 30 year old the way a 16 year old treats her best friend would not be acceptable for a 30 year old how the 30 year old would treat their co-worker or colleague or if the 30 year old treated their friend that way the frame would walk out it's not just that this hypothetical 18 year old is choosing to be with an older man okay the older man is choosing to be with her the older man is taking on a disproportionate and unequal responsibility and the older man is taking on a really strange form of vulnerability that'll you know a lot of people can't relate to and a lot of people are not mature enough for that there were a lot of guys let's say okay let's say a guy who's 28 there were a lot of guys who at 28 cannot cope with a relationship with an 18 year old girl precisely because it's this it's this bizarre unequal relationship of extraordinary and asymmetrical responsibilities where she's gonna treat him like an 18 year old and he's supposed to treat her back with you know a lot of care a lot of deference a lot of responsibility no matter how abusive or uncontrollable or crazy you know she may be so as an older man in that situation that's what you're signing up for I think even though it's more rare I think if joy an older woman signing up with a teenage dude that's what she'd be signing up for - I can remember I can remember what I was like at 60 I remember what I was like at 18 it's not even about smart versus stupid you can be brilliant as a teenager but you don't know how to act you don't know how to take responsibility you don't know you know least of all does a teenager know how to conduct herself or himself in a home where they're taking care of young children it's an unbelievable imposition to invite this teenage girl into your life and SEM and then have her however take care of your kids it's anyway it's a huge commitment and if you want to make this comparison to the military then guess what and it's Ian you're the army you should be looking at yourself as having an incredibly high level of commitment and care towards this teenager that that put herself you know into your hands I mean really people like to disrespect my truth but the fact is that you know my name is I don't know you