Onision Cries Blackmail! 😒 Love & Trust, Sex & Consequences

how can you mean it was blackmail and
extinction but simultaneously admit yeah you wanted it you lost it after her that implies you want sex I'm a guy I think you've sunk to a really low point when you're go to excuse your behaviour I'm a guy what you lost it off you still don't this is the this is the concession that some of his viewers caught him on and that they're still reminding him of that he's admitted that he lusted after her so in the earlier videos where he was he had his face on camera he was speaking directly he admitted that he was into it that he did want her it's here being phrases that he lusted after her he doesn't really ever come clean about this but he's admitted that during these years 16 to 18 we was living with this girl she's taking care of his kids and washing dishes in the sink and eating meals together and doing literally doing her makeup in the mirror with his wife it's a very close relationship for however many months she's in the house with you it's a lot closer than most people's relationship with their employees are their servants and she was involved me she was there during the whole debacle with Billy moving in and having three relations he's conceded that he lusted after her during this time but that he repressed it and so the audience the members of his audience here saying well wait the justification here doesn't make sense okay it's a little weird but it's it's finally oh it's that push that kind of eliminates all these other things that where you're like is this right is it wrong should we do this deny well it's legal but is it morally right yada yada oh there's no saying that if we don't do it then they're not going to sign this agreement which would be did you notice in there he made the concession really briefly he said it's legal but it's not morally right yet I think before and after said yada yada yada can you even imagine me being in this situation with a 28 year old like it and being so delusional about it like engaging in this car it would still be like a baffling moral example to reflect on if this person had gone from 26 to 28 and not from 16 to 18 when when this story unfolded one thing that's Sara and I had when she was not an adult was our gaming of course of course the one thing they had together was playing video games the basis of all those relationships with women it seems the same video game where we murdered each other in it all the time that was like our thing that was the only thing we had was killing each other in a video game that was our bond I guess kids kids diapers and she was like sleeping in the same bed with his wife who later transitioned to being first this is someone who lives in your house and like cleans your kitchen and eats meals with you every day and like I love the way you sleep she was nothing to me and it was like no she was she was just someone I played video games look like dude your kids all knew her name your aunts and uncles I mean this has been mentioned going to some kind of Easter dinner Christmas dinner these kinds of holiday events she went to as your quote/unquote foster daughter she was a lot more to you and to your wife than just somebody you played and you made YouTube videos together sorry I mean oh I don't care I know look I'm a youtuber also there's someone I've made like two dozen videos with you that that's also part of the relationship that's also a way you relate for sure what do you want to spend time with her or be around her in general I was just working all the time while she hung out with kind so yeah kind of weird isn't really my business I don't care about kind of weird I do think it's it's kind of horrible to blackmail someone in having sex with you which is what happened to us but what you lost it after still don't this is the this is the concession that some of his viewers caught him on and that they're still reminding him of that he's admitted that he lusted after her so in the earlier videos where he was he had his face on camera we was speaking directly he admitted that he was into it that he did want her or it's here being phrases that he lusted after her the you normally stay in this in a kind of really evasive way where he was admitting that his wife Lainey was not into it his wife didn't want to do it but he was into it so they'd have these three ways with the three of them had sex together and he was saying his wife wasn't it but that he was and that Sarah really was like so he he doesn't really ever come clean about this but he's admitted that during these years 16 to 18 we was living with this girl she's taking care of his kids and washing dishes in the sink and eating meals together and doing literally doing her makeup in the mirror with his wife and it's a very close relationship for however many months she's in the house with you it's a lot closer than most people's relationship with their employees of their service and she was involved me she was there during the whole debacle with Billy moving in and having three relationships she was literally there and involved and weeping and he's conceded that he lusted after her during this time but that he repressed it and so the audience the members of his audience here are saying well wait the justification come here doesn't make sense given that you've admitted that you lusted after you didn't so the point is you didn't see her as a kid you didn't see yourself as her foster parent and she is your foster child because you have he said that on camera many times and he said everyone in the audience was perverted and disgusted if they thought I see adults as adults and kids as kids sexual extortion I feel like that is something that nobody pays attention to it how can you mean it was blackmail and extortion but simultaneously admit yeah you wanted it you lost it after her that implies you want sex I'm a guy and an adult woman wants to be with you and there's nothing I think you've sunk to a really low point when you're go to excuse your behaviors I'm a guy I don't think there's any good situation to use that line you're a guy you're also a father of two children and this girl raised her two children over a period of two years two and afters again your children know her know her name your aunts and uncles your mom I think he's estranged from his father they've all met her and know her name would have met her at Christmas dinner in those days where and it was explained to those people I think those people probably also heard by his YouTube channel in other social media that she was somebody to be regarded as a kind of foster child living with them and co-parenting with them and helping out around the house in exchange for living rent-free she was still doing high school by correspondence course by like you know internet long distance high school she was still high school student boy I'm a guy well yeah actually the subject of this video is whether or not you're a good guy did you forget that it's a little weird but it's it's finally oh it's that push that kind of eliminates all these other things that where you're like is this right is it wrong should we do this you know I well it's legal but is it morally right oh there's no saying that if we don't do it then they're not going to sign this agreement which wouldn't it did you notice in there he made the concession really briefly he said it's legal but it's not morally right yet I think before and after said yada yada yada but it was in there very briefly it's legal but it's not more about that was supposed to be talked with this video right just be supposed to be talking about morally and ethically not legally we're not he's a good person all right so you see at this point in s he tries to make himself into the victim with this narrative about so-called blackmail what he is calling blackmail here is the threat that's someone he slept with could come on the internet and say they slept together could tell the true story of their love affair right I would not call that blackmail I think it's actually really important to say that in the 21st century that's a serious aspect of freedom of speech - one of the consequence of freedom speech that all of us liveth if I have a one night stand with someone else who lives in my apartment building you know they're very unlikely to tell other people who lived in the apartment building I mean it's a funny thing about humans Jane Shan you know if you sleep with someone in your workplace so you sleep with someone who goes to the same gym with you so they're very unlikely to tell other people who work out at your gym but they may feel completely comfortable coming on Facebook Instagram YouTube whatever and making a video saying hey you know I slept with that guy and telling the whole story from their perspective and there are some people who when they are speaking from their perspective even if they're being as honest as they can be will say things that you think are unreasonable that you think are hurtful that you think are untruthful or that maybe a mixture of fact and fantasy you know I've known a lot of people who when they're being as honest as they can be are still a lot less than hundred percent honest like it's as honest as they can be with you because they can't be that honest to themselves and when people have hurt feelings you know that that can be a factor in life so I mean back in the 1990's used to say look if you're gonna sleep with somebody make sure you're willing to commit to dealing with the possibility of pregnancy make sure you're going to commit to the possibility of dealing with sexually transmitted disease today in the 21st century I think you really have to be willing to commit to the possibility that they're going to go on the internet and say terrible things about you and the terrible things they're saying may be true from their perspective they may be false it may put you in a terrible position of trying to clear you know the two very different things love and trust you can love someone you don't really trust you know you can love someone but no they're not reliable or they were a little bit crazy or um maybe once they get upset there were a lot crazy but other times they're safe and rational you can you can fall in love with someone easily easily knowing that if you break up or if it doesn't work out they're the kind of person he'll turn around and you know try to create some terrible scandal on the Internet so again I'm not morally opposed to age gap relationships one I'm morally opposed to is self-deception and because the nescient was so much older and so much wealthier he had all the power and all the control here he owned the house he was buying the airplane tickets he was paying this girl's salary to live he really was employing her as a babysitter the extent to which he managed to delude himself and with the sense of absolute moral superiority destroy his own life and then blame it on this girl yeah like I say the purpose of engaging in this kind of analysis is what we can learn well we can apply to our own lives I think there is a moral of the story here that a lot of people could learn from and when you open the door to let a new person into your life in this case not just into your life into the life of your wife or husband into your bedroom into taking care of your children into your YouTube channel which is in this case is career you make videos together you raise kids together you yeah you play video games together you do a lot more than play video games you open your door a crack and really made this girl a part of your life and a part of your family and you introduced her to everyone as your foster daughter you're on the internet and face to face in your life yeah you're opening the door crack and they can put their foot in it and they could say okay this is who I am this is what I want this is what I expect and you know for better or for worse if you believe in freedom of speech you believe that they have the power or the right and responsibility to come on the internet and tell their own side of the story just the way that you and Sen have destroyed any people's lives buy from your perspective telling your own dad [Music]