Final Cut Bro: KaitlinWitcher vs. ProSyndicate (Tom Syndicate)

okay so i don't really have many good
relationship breakup advice and i hope i never find out what that is like because i'd rather not break up with the one i'm with now because he's the one oh i'm sorry okay um here's another thing ready ready for this i'm so sick of seeing the comments get back together with you know who i'm not getting back together with him okay it's over it's done he dumped me it's gone okay so shut up please because it hurts me so much to have to listen to that all the time okay i was with him for almost two years and then i just get dumped out of the blue so if you want to go hate on me fine if you want to go hate on him whatever you know i don't care anymore because i have had it with you guys okay i never wanted anything because i wasn't ready and i didn't know what i was doing i laid there with my hands over my mouth so i wouldn't make a noise because i was crying so hard and he didn't care i just did what he wanted and then there was this person online that tormented everything i built on minecraft and he got banned sure enough i go seek out who this guy was because i was going to get my revenge i was pissed and it turned out to be this guy called the syndicate project later he asked me to talk to him on skype and sure enough we do and we immediately became friends and that's all i thought we were going to be he told me to start making youtube videos for him which i thought was kind of odd because why would i make youtube videos i'm shy and awkward and quiet and and it's youtube isn't a place for me but he wanted them for him so i started making videos for him and then you all know now that tom is not just my friend he is my boyfriend and he means absolutely everything to me and um he's basically the reason why i'm here today what i mean here i don't mean on youtube i don't mean online i mean pretty much here in in life december 2012 i came to la we were in the hotel room and he said that he wanted to do things and i said no and he said yes and i said no and he made me believe that i deserved it for years professional cameras i don't know how professional that is stop it you're beautiful so now you can see me and her because the magic of video camera i'm trying so hard i'm sorry i met them when i was 18 years old he was my first boyfriend and i didn't know better yeah looking for lucky charms and uh just you know i'm just facetiming so just in case anyone asks for facetiming but uh cereal here we go so yeah we just thought we do evolve together finally everyone's been wondering if we are yes we are had a big big shocking it you know never would have guessed never would have guessed i would try to shower and he would barge in the bathroom and sit on the toilet and open the door because he wanted to watch and i asked him not to because it made me uncomfortable and he argued with me that he wanted to see and i said please leave and so i tried to wrap myself in a towel and he ripped the towel out of my hands and so i grabbed another towel and he ripped that out of my hands so i grabbed another towel and held onto it as hard as i could and wrapped myself in it while the shower was still going and he sat there just smirking i'm joined with kate we're at the uh we're at the zoo and all day we've been walking around and kate's wanting to see pandas i'll show i'll show you like what's up i'll show you what we're looking at what it's been a good trip i've enjoyed it and um i go this i've got last day here tomorrow and then um that's it i'm done i'm flying back to england i'm leaving you forever forever around mustafa but he wouldn't let go of my ankles and he kept he kept pulling me across the bed and he told me to be quiet and just take it i said no so why didn't he stop he said you're supposed to want this you're supposed to like this i'd rather not break up with the one i'm with now because he's the one oh i'm sorry okay um he dumped me it's gone okay so shut up please because it hurts me so much to have to listen to that all the time okay i was with him for almost two years and then i just get dumped out of the blue he means absolutely everything to me and um he's basically the reason why i'm here today what i mean here i don't mean on youtube i don't mean online i mean pretty much here in in life the thing is to us i don't have receipts i don't have proof because i thought i thought that was normal please understand there are people uncountable in the millions who turn on the internet and tune in every day to judge someone to take someone's soul and put it in the balance and decide whether they're good bad or indifferent and for the most part they seem to enjoy pointing the finger and judging someone to be very bad and these people in their millions for the most part they think in terms of true and false good and evil right and wrong also sometimes the difference between proven and unproven allegations but you know when you deal with gossip allegations and accusations about people's personal lives intimate lives very often you're dealing with things that are true but nevertheless unreasonable stated in an unreasonable way the way in which this young woman told her story was to emphasize again and again that she was only 18 years old that she was a mixed-up kid who didn't know what she wanted who didn't know how to handle being in a an adult relationship and she implies that by contrast the young man she was with was somehow older more mature more dominant and more commanding and as you can see when you just refer to film clips at the time what she's failing to mention again and again is that he also was 18 years old and later 19 years old he also was a mixed up kid who didn't know what he was doing an anecdote like the one she tells about him insisting on watching her naked in the shower and him taking the towel away from her that may be very immature it may even be evil i mean i don't really sympathize with this kid i don't give a damn i have no reason to i have no reason to anything positive with this kid but sure for an 18 year old or 19 year old boy who is sharing a hotel room with his girlfriend it may be stupid it may be awful but the nature of that crime taken out of context and presented the internet by a weeping young woman in this very dramatic very one-sided way it's going to have a damning and damaging effect far out of proportion to the sneering behavior that she describes in this young man and so i grabbed another towel and he ripped that out of my hands so i grabbed another towel and held onto it as hard as i could and wrapped myself in it while the shower was still going and he sat there just smirking we're moving into a period of time here in the 21st century when you may have co-workers who are selling nude pictures themselves on the internet you may work i don't know a normal job an office job you may work as a school teacher and there are other school teachers or the secretary or something who also has an only fans account or an instagram account and has nude pictures of themselves the internet or is doing porn in their spare time you may know all kinds of things with other people's personal lives and their sex lives and you may have co-workers you may have colleagues you may have friends and there are terrible stories on the internet about what they did with their ex-girlfriend back when they were 18 years old or their breakup with their ex-wife when they were 30 years old there may be stories of this kind and they may be told by the person himself or herself right it may not be from the ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend but they may be sitting on the internet and reflecting on what went wrong in their marriage wrong in their relationship uh so on and so forth so a type of information that formerly just floated around as a rumor and innuendo that people might hear at the bar they might hear at the water cooler is now set down in indelible inc on the internet and is presented in these edited and emotive performances on youtube i have absolutely no reason to think this young man tom tom syndicate i have no reason to think he's innocent i have no reason that he's a good person uh for various reasons i'm actually quite strongly biased against him however we have to ask herself as never before what is justice in this case for this young man let's just suppose every single thing his ex-girlfriend said is the truth let's say the thing with the towel happened let's say all the vague innuendo let's just let's just hypothetically ask what if each and everything she said was true but we acknowledge that she is completely omitting his side of the story she's not presenting it in a kind of reasonable or balanced way but we can use her own imagination too to fill in it eight years after the fact and given that we also have all these videos of her saying how passionately she was in love with him how she continued to be in love with him after this one night in a hotel that went so badly and the fact that he dumped her she didn't dump him and then she you know wasn't bittered and still given the whole arc and given that eight years have passed what now is justice what would justice mean in relation to this young man and what he did even if we could treat this young woman as a 100 percent unbiased witness to the evils of her own ex-boyfriend i mean really people like to disrespect my crew but the fact is that you know my name and i don't know you