Communists are creepy: Mexie is wrong about sex… and politics.
16 June 2019 [link youtube]
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that just in the last couple of days of spent time speaking to a great many left-wing extremists communists socialists far-left people I've actually also had conversations with some right-wing far-right extremists the last couple days but those were not posted on the Internet and that's kind of a strange saddening look into the funhouse mirror of the way that political faith distorts other human beings experience of life on Earth this video is largely about politics and the way in which our political commitments shape our psychology or perception of the world it also happens to be about sex and so and the women in these videos are just like going wild like they're screaming like oh god right it looks like they're having orgasms like ten times during one sexual encounter what I've heard again and again in my debates with communists in the last several days would have heard again and again is a very peculiar self-sabotaging mode of thought whereby they artificially lower their expectations to such an extent that it justifies their own position in life as frustrated revolutionaries it justifies their ethical position as people who make excuses for regimes that were failures it justifies their position intellectually in terms of the excuses they have to make for economic theories that don't make sense economic theories that are not credible that are not taken seriously in university contexts that don't have equations that are used to actually get meaningful results in this kind of thing there are sort of so many strange things they have to compensate for as communists as people who openly espouse this largely discredited and despised philosophy and it's remarkable to me that in this discussion of human sexuality much the same thing is going for these women when they're presenting their own sense of sexual dissatisfaction and their sense of sexual inadequacy but they presented as a set of myths about life on earth as if they're universal since an experience that I had recently you know I think I've talked about this before that I had been in a long-term relationship for quite some time which ended last year and so I'm back on the dating scene and trying to navigate you know having sex with new people and so yeah I had met this one person we really hit it off me like I love chemistry and whatever but I could tell that there was a lot of anxiety for him around getting me off and we'll get into this later but yeah like first few times that you're with a new person like the woman is probably not getting off right yeah and I think a huge so I guess I'll get into a little bit how men have been socialized to think about female orgasms and okay I'll say that first of all I feel like there's a disproportionate weight that's placed on orgasms in general like there's disproportionate importance both in the minds of men and women yeah I think that a huge problem with female orgasms is that at least from a male gaze is that they've been taught to want to give a female orgasm but not really for the pleasure in and of itself of the women but rather as like this competitive domineering feeling that they can unlock in another women there's this almost like pride that goes I think men are conditioned from a young age to to need to satisfy a lot of women in order to prove their masculinity and with that comes the necessity to make them come not because you want them to be not really because the focus is on when Pledger but rather on like collecting almost these like points or these like gold stars that bolster your masculinity I mean from the conversations I've had with other men and what I'm thinking in particular like they don't talk about sex that much amongst themselves like the intricacies of like women's bodies or how they're feeling emotionally connected or not to their partner but it's more like oh like I made her [ __ ] or like I [ __ ] this money those many girls you know or it's it still is very like higher I could go a competitive way of looking at sex and basically just looking at sex as a way to bolster your own dominance and masculinity so I think that it does lead to feelings of like failure and self-loathing if you're not able to fulfill that role as a man and so it's really toxic for both parties like the majority of porn is male gaze porn but it's stuff it's stuff that would that like a penis would find pleasurable but it's never it's not stuff that would that a vagina would find pleasurable like we dug with a little time but like if there's like this kind of sound ever ah no no no right and the women in those boys like that that does not feel good it doesn't feel good ever no and so none of the women in these videos are just like going wild like they're screaming like haha right it looks like they're having orgasms like 10 times during one sexual encounter and so men walk away from that thinking that like this is what sex is and like this is what sexy this is what women find sexy this is how what encounter should look like and then so yeah of course like women also feel this pressure to perform during sex and to be like uh uh making these noises and like feigning like they are orgasming if I'm faking it you're gonna think that what you're doing works works and is that what you're doing gives me pleasure and so you're never gonna learn anything else you're not going to ask any questions getting it because you're gonna be like oh I already know it what I'm doing alright this works great like how many men have I slept with who have been in like one turn relationships and I'm like oh my god yeah and like the others are going hard on the [ __ ] they're like doing the like they're putting my legs above their neck they're like just doing the like P and the V in and out in and out without any wave motion or anything and I'm like really did your last girlfriend enjoy this cuz I know she didn't turn out well she didn't so I'm like I guess she made you believe that she did and now I have to deal with this and then if I start to say if I don't if I don't fake it then you think something's wrong with me really you think there's something wrong like with our sexual chemistry and that like we just don't fit together every vagina raised up really and we're not claiming to know everything about how every Medinah works however I will say that they're a certain thing yes that I've had done to me where I'm like I know with near certainty yes that no one enjoys this no I've been talking to a lot of Communists in just the last few days and I've been reminded of the extent to which communists in the year 2019 are people who have to live balancing a set of very contradictory forces at all times so to give an example one communist was insisting to me that Cuba has a really wonderful healthcare system and I just paused and asked well do you really think that Cuba has a great health care system compared to Scotland Denmark Japan and Taiwan you really think you've as a world-class health care system and no I mean as the discussion went on it was revealed that he was lowering his standards to such an extent that really all he was saying was compared to a country in sub-saharan Africa that's completely poverty-stricken and as a disaster by that standard Cuba has a good health care system but some incredibly low standard um another communist I spoke to this is just within the last few days was contextualizing mass murder and Cambodia mass murder carried out by communist by saying that at about the same time historically in Indonesia there were massacres being carried out also and he really was using this to justify well in a sense what he was saying was how dare you complain about mass murder carried out by communists in one place when there was mass murder carried out by other people who are not communists in another place and you could say that this is again kind of in an absurd sense lowering your standards so that the disasters that have been real-world communist regimes don't seem so disastrous communists are people who have to at all times live with the kind of justification for why they believe in an economic theory that's discredited debunked not used in universities it's not used in a pragmatic sense to make economic forecasts they're not producing like useful equations for real-world applications of economics why it is that they defend and make excuses for a philosophy that isn't just associated with mass starvation and mass murder but also is just associated with really depressing dingy mediocre and awful political and social results and what I mean by that is if if you were going to somehow distract yourself from look away from the mass murder or the masturbation that really the really outstanding failures of communism if you were going to distract yourself from the fact that people in these societies did not have the right to vote did not have the right to choose their government choose who ruled them they did not have the right to complain against the people who did rule them they didn't have the right to for example write articles published editorials in a newspaper complaining about government corruption or complaining about water pollution or anything else even if you overlook all of these things it's just not the case that when we look back at the history of the last 200 years life in communist regimes is wonderful or positive doesn't stand out in history of the world again whether we compare it to Denmark Japan or anywhere else or basically the quality of life health care or education and indeed were the fabric of society in the progress of culture itself has been generally positive so it struck me in hearing these arguments from people over the last couple of days how similar the psychology was to what Maxie and privileged vegan did in this podcast which was they justified their own sexual inadequacy by projecting it out into the world as universal and making truth claims that would basically pretend that everyone on earth is sexually crippled in the same way that that they are I've spoken to Communists who would really try to claim that all regimes all governments all around the world are oppressive in the same way the communist regimes are and therefore it's okay and therefore doesn't matter and it's really bizarre to hear Mexi and marine stating that they they truly believe there are no women in the world who enjoy penetrative sex that there were no women in the world who have war hazards and penetrative sex they believe that it's completely fake and implausible and ridiculous for a woman to have ten orgasms during sex they believe that what they see in pornography in vanilla straight pornography is entirely fake and impossible that the women expressing you know that they're having orgasms and so on and why do they believe this they believe it only because their own experience of sexuality is is so much more negative and it would require a more humbling adjustment of their perception of the world to stop and look at that failure without the excuse of thinking or pretending that everyone else on earth is struggling with the same failure - they're not you know the contrast between East Germany and West Germany is absolute life in West Germany was better than life in East Germany for everyone not just the rich the rich in the for life the contrast between North Korea and South Korea it's absolute life in South Korea still today it's not just better for the rich it's better for the poor it's better for everyone education health care of the fabric of society and at almost any point in the 20th century life in a place like Japan or a place like California was better than life in the Soviet Union life in communist China under Mao Zedong there's there's just no comparison it's a kind of inverse jealousy that communists engage in I think they get into a really fragile state of mind where what they want to do is preclude the possibility of allowing themselves to think in terms of that humbling comparison [Music]
that just in the last couple of days of spent time speaking to a great many left-wing extremists communists socialists far-left people I've actually also had conversations with some right-wing far-right extremists the last couple days but those were not posted on the Internet and that's kind of a strange saddening look into the funhouse mirror of the way that political faith distorts other human beings experience of life on Earth this video is largely about politics and the way in which our political commitments shape our psychology or perception of the world it also happens to be about sex and so and the women in these videos are just like going wild like they're screaming like oh god right it looks like they're having orgasms like ten times during one sexual encounter what I've heard again and again in my debates with communists in the last several days would have heard again and again is a very peculiar self-sabotaging mode of thought whereby they artificially lower their expectations to such an extent that it justifies their own position in life as frustrated revolutionaries it justifies their ethical position as people who make excuses for regimes that were failures it justifies their position intellectually in terms of the excuses they have to make for economic theories that don't make sense economic theories that are not credible that are not taken seriously in university contexts that don't have equations that are used to actually get meaningful results in this kind of thing there are sort of so many strange things they have to compensate for as communists as people who openly espouse this largely discredited and despised philosophy and it's remarkable to me that in this discussion of human sexuality much the same thing is going for these women when they're presenting their own sense of sexual dissatisfaction and their sense of sexual inadequacy but they presented as a set of myths about life on earth as if they're universal since an experience that I had recently you know I think I've talked about this before that I had been in a long-term relationship for quite some time which ended last year and so I'm back on the dating scene and trying to navigate you know having sex with new people and so yeah I had met this one person we really hit it off me like I love chemistry and whatever but I could tell that there was a lot of anxiety for him around getting me off and we'll get into this later but yeah like first few times that you're with a new person like the woman is probably not getting off right yeah and I think a huge so I guess I'll get into a little bit how men have been socialized to think about female orgasms and okay I'll say that first of all I feel like there's a disproportionate weight that's placed on orgasms in general like there's disproportionate importance both in the minds of men and women yeah I think that a huge problem with female orgasms is that at least from a male gaze is that they've been taught to want to give a female orgasm but not really for the pleasure in and of itself of the women but rather as like this competitive domineering feeling that they can unlock in another women there's this almost like pride that goes I think men are conditioned from a young age to to need to satisfy a lot of women in order to prove their masculinity and with that comes the necessity to make them come not because you want them to be not really because the focus is on when Pledger but rather on like collecting almost these like points or these like gold stars that bolster your masculinity I mean from the conversations I've had with other men and what I'm thinking in particular like they don't talk about sex that much amongst themselves like the intricacies of like women's bodies or how they're feeling emotionally connected or not to their partner but it's more like oh like I made her [ __ ] or like I [ __ ] this money those many girls you know or it's it still is very like higher I could go a competitive way of looking at sex and basically just looking at sex as a way to bolster your own dominance and masculinity so I think that it does lead to feelings of like failure and self-loathing if you're not able to fulfill that role as a man and so it's really toxic for both parties like the majority of porn is male gaze porn but it's stuff it's stuff that would that like a penis would find pleasurable but it's never it's not stuff that would that a vagina would find pleasurable like we dug with a little time but like if there's like this kind of sound ever ah no no no right and the women in those boys like that that does not feel good it doesn't feel good ever no and so none of the women in these videos are just like going wild like they're screaming like haha right it looks like they're having orgasms like 10 times during one sexual encounter and so men walk away from that thinking that like this is what sex is and like this is what sexy this is what women find sexy this is how what encounter should look like and then so yeah of course like women also feel this pressure to perform during sex and to be like uh uh making these noises and like feigning like they are orgasming if I'm faking it you're gonna think that what you're doing works works and is that what you're doing gives me pleasure and so you're never gonna learn anything else you're not going to ask any questions getting it because you're gonna be like oh I already know it what I'm doing alright this works great like how many men have I slept with who have been in like one turn relationships and I'm like oh my god yeah and like the others are going hard on the [ __ ] they're like doing the like they're putting my legs above their neck they're like just doing the like P and the V in and out in and out without any wave motion or anything and I'm like really did your last girlfriend enjoy this cuz I know she didn't turn out well she didn't so I'm like I guess she made you believe that she did and now I have to deal with this and then if I start to say if I don't if I don't fake it then you think something's wrong with me really you think there's something wrong like with our sexual chemistry and that like we just don't fit together every vagina raised up really and we're not claiming to know everything about how every Medinah works however I will say that they're a certain thing yes that I've had done to me where I'm like I know with near certainty yes that no one enjoys this no I've been talking to a lot of Communists in just the last few days and I've been reminded of the extent to which communists in the year 2019 are people who have to live balancing a set of very contradictory forces at all times so to give an example one communist was insisting to me that Cuba has a really wonderful healthcare system and I just paused and asked well do you really think that Cuba has a great health care system compared to Scotland Denmark Japan and Taiwan you really think you've as a world-class health care system and no I mean as the discussion went on it was revealed that he was lowering his standards to such an extent that really all he was saying was compared to a country in sub-saharan Africa that's completely poverty-stricken and as a disaster by that standard Cuba has a good health care system but some incredibly low standard um another communist I spoke to this is just within the last few days was contextualizing mass murder and Cambodia mass murder carried out by communist by saying that at about the same time historically in Indonesia there were massacres being carried out also and he really was using this to justify well in a sense what he was saying was how dare you complain about mass murder carried out by communists in one place when there was mass murder carried out by other people who are not communists in another place and you could say that this is again kind of in an absurd sense lowering your standards so that the disasters that have been real-world communist regimes don't seem so disastrous communists are people who have to at all times live with the kind of justification for why they believe in an economic theory that's discredited debunked not used in universities it's not used in a pragmatic sense to make economic forecasts they're not producing like useful equations for real-world applications of economics why it is that they defend and make excuses for a philosophy that isn't just associated with mass starvation and mass murder but also is just associated with really depressing dingy mediocre and awful political and social results and what I mean by that is if if you were going to somehow distract yourself from look away from the mass murder or the masturbation that really the really outstanding failures of communism if you were going to distract yourself from the fact that people in these societies did not have the right to vote did not have the right to choose their government choose who ruled them they did not have the right to complain against the people who did rule them they didn't have the right to for example write articles published editorials in a newspaper complaining about government corruption or complaining about water pollution or anything else even if you overlook all of these things it's just not the case that when we look back at the history of the last 200 years life in communist regimes is wonderful or positive doesn't stand out in history of the world again whether we compare it to Denmark Japan or anywhere else or basically the quality of life health care or education and indeed were the fabric of society in the progress of culture itself has been generally positive so it struck me in hearing these arguments from people over the last couple of days how similar the psychology was to what Maxie and privileged vegan did in this podcast which was they justified their own sexual inadequacy by projecting it out into the world as universal and making truth claims that would basically pretend that everyone on earth is sexually crippled in the same way that that they are I've spoken to Communists who would really try to claim that all regimes all governments all around the world are oppressive in the same way the communist regimes are and therefore it's okay and therefore doesn't matter and it's really bizarre to hear Mexi and marine stating that they they truly believe there are no women in the world who enjoy penetrative sex that there were no women in the world who have war hazards and penetrative sex they believe that it's completely fake and implausible and ridiculous for a woman to have ten orgasms during sex they believe that what they see in pornography in vanilla straight pornography is entirely fake and impossible that the women expressing you know that they're having orgasms and so on and why do they believe this they believe it only because their own experience of sexuality is is so much more negative and it would require a more humbling adjustment of their perception of the world to stop and look at that failure without the excuse of thinking or pretending that everyone else on earth is struggling with the same failure - they're not you know the contrast between East Germany and West Germany is absolute life in West Germany was better than life in East Germany for everyone not just the rich the rich in the for life the contrast between North Korea and South Korea it's absolute life in South Korea still today it's not just better for the rich it's better for the poor it's better for everyone education health care of the fabric of society and at almost any point in the 20th century life in a place like Japan or a place like California was better than life in the Soviet Union life in communist China under Mao Zedong there's there's just no comparison it's a kind of inverse jealousy that communists engage in I think they get into a really fragile state of mind where what they want to do is preclude the possibility of allowing themselves to think in terms of that humbling comparison [Music]